25 Reasons for Dumping your Boyfriend
Women dumping men is nothing new in this modern age. What exactly makes women dump men? There can be a variety of reasons why a woman should not continue the relationship and dump her boyfriend or partner. Some of these signs or signals that prompt women for taking action are given below.
- Abusive Behavior: Your Boyfriend hits you or slaps you very often. You also should take action against the guy if he is blackmailing or threatening you. Does he pick fights over silly things and even call you names.
- Lack of Respect: He has no respect for you or your feelings. He treats you like a servant or slave.
- Infidelity: If you find your Boyfriend cheating on you it's time that you dump him.
- Drug Addiction or Alcoholism: You should be better away from such guys because you have absolutely no future with such guys.
- Jobless or Homeless: You don't need a Boyfriend who would be a burden on you. If a man cannot earn his living and keep you in comforts he is not worth you. He wants to move on with you.
- Jealous or Possessive: You should steer clear of Guys who are jealous and over possessive.
- Married or in Relationship: If the guy is married or in a serious relationship and did not disclose to you keep away from him. It still makes me wonder what makes some women attracted to already married men.
- Mommas Boy: He is Mommas boy and does not have an opinion of his own.
- Lack of Love and Care: Companionship and security are two things most women look in man. If you man does not love or care for you then the relationship is not worth it.
- Availability: He is no where when you need him. You live in the same town but you rarely get to see him which is a clear sign of his involvement elsewhere.
- You no longer love him or attracted to him: You can't stand the sight of him anymore. His habits irritate you. In short, you have fallen out of love.
- He flirts with everything on skirts: Even when he is with you he looks at every other woman in sight than you.
- He is secretive: Your boyfriend is secretive about a lot of things which is a clear sign of infidelity in relationship. He introduces you as 'friend' to his other female friends. When you are with him and his phone rings he takes the call in other room or cut off telling that he would call back. He is secretive about his whereabouts or family and never takes you to visit his family.
- Lack of Desire: You do not have any desire for this man. It can be the other way round too that your boyfriend is not interested in you physically.
- Lack of Communication: Communication is lacking in your relationship. You don't share things with each other anymore.
- No Future: You do not see a happy future with your Boyfriend.
- You feel miserable and unhappy: If a relationship is making you miserable and unhappy then it is not worth it.
- You can't trust him anymore: He has lost your trust because of his behavior or actions.
- He is over ambitious: He spends majority of his time working even when he is at home and do not have time for you. He leaves you lonely many nights and you rarely see him.
- He is a control freak: He is a control freak and tries to tell you what to do and run your life.
- Not taking Responsibility: He never takes responsibility for his words or actions and always blames others and situations for all problems.
- He is negative: A negative person would only discourage you or pull you down from progressing. You are better off without him.
- His friends: His does not have any male friends or his friends are a bunch of jerks or gays.
- Fallen in love: You are in love with someone else or you have found someone who is better than him.
- Your Parents does not approve him: Love is blind but now you have come to your senses. You need family and social acceptance.
The above given are 25 common reasons why women dump their boyfriends or breaking up a relationship. Feel free to add more through comments.
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Great reasons! Also I would say that if he doesn't volunteer to help out, either around the house, or with bills, or if he won't compromise on housework and such, then it's time for him to go.
"He is Mommas boy and does not have an opinion of his own." :) actually, I know a few people with this "syndrome"... big thumbs up for you...
These are good reasons! Nice article!
Great article, I got a friend who is in a bad relationship, and I'm going to show her this article.
Great advice. I would definitely dump my boyfriend/spouse if he fell into some of these categories.
yep very true and its the same the other way around....
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Other than #23 and #25, I completely agree with you. Well done.
All good reasons. I think I should write one about why to leave your girlfriend!
4 - If he's trying to overcome an addiction, dumping him is only going to send him back into bad habits.
5 - Seems a bit harsh to dump your boyfriend because he can't find a job, especially when so many people can't find jobs right now.
23 - Besides the fact the using the word "gays" as an insult is incredibly offensive to homosexuals, you think you should dump a guy if his friends happen to be female rather than male?
25 - Screw what your family thinks. You're the one dating him, not them.
All great reasons why love doesn't always work out :)
Seems you've covered every angle - Momma's boy! Love that one!
To be honest, I'd have to disagree on a large amount of those suggestions... after all, true love is usually unconditional :)
Looks like you might as well stay single. Nobody could live up to ALL of these. (Don't get me wrong, I agree with you about many of these things, such as abusiveness, cheating, lack of respect,etc.) Inability to get a job - unless he's a total bum I'd cut him some slack here. Same with what your family thinks - families do not always know best. Besides you are, as Alipeewee said, the one dating him. Overall nice job.
Due to the commoditization of relationships in the US, this article makes good sense.
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Awesome piece of writing.:)
This article was written by a shallow person. lol
All good choices. Nice list.
These are some very good reasons! Nice article.
I agree with most of them, nice work!
Personally, I think a list of 25 reasons people should seek to solve their own personal problems before they look for a significant other would probably make this list obsolete. Do you have addictions? What are your own imperfections? I think more relationships would work out if each party sought to center themselves before they look for someone else. Why is it we always look outward?
I think every partner is going to have their own kinds of baggage that may very well show up in some way or another (control freak, addictive behavior, etc.) For me, the trick to deciding whether I should be with (or stay with) someone is determining to what extent that person is willing to be honest with themselves and with me in admitting character defects and devising a plan to deal with them. There is no such thing as the perfect partner, just like there is no such thing as a perfect person, but what matters is how a person chooses to deal with their blemishes.
Well done!
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