5 Straightforward Reasons Not to Stay Longer in a Relationship

yolly | Jul 7, 2011 |

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Are you wondering why relationships fail no matter how much love there was?

5 straightforward reasons why relationship fails

At the onset of a fever, seek medical help. This also holds true in a relationship. Are you wondering why relationships fail no matter how much love there was? There got to be good, solid reasons to ask help before it’s too late.

Here are 5 straightforward reasons why:

1. A Big Spender

Financial reasons--stories of debt sprouting like mushrooms because one of the partner’s spending habits is too much to bear. This financial infidelity is always one of the disagreements in a relationship. No matter how in love the couple is, not to go bankrupt far outweigh love. For all you know, bankruptcy causes lifelong damage.

2. Endless Comparison to Others

Every time there is a disagreement, one of the partners keeps on comparing the other partner to others. Imperfections have been known long before you get into the relationship, so comparing should not get-in-the-way.

3. Addiction to Drugs or Alcohol

You don’t want to end up six feet underground, so addiction to drugs or alcohol is by far reasonable to break away in a relationship. No amount of love can spare your life, so at the first sign of addiction, seek immediate help.

4. Showing Disrespect to Friends and Relatives

Okay, you love your girlfriend. But what if you find her disrespectful to your relatives, friends? How could you be in a relationship where respect for the others is not present? When you love somebody, you got to love everyone in his life. This doesn’t mean you’re going to give in to their caprices. Be respectful and that’s it!

5. Immaturity

Immaturity is synonymous to irresponsibility. There got to have some sort of maturity for a relationship to succeed. Since you cannot impose maturity in a relationship, maybe it’s time to break out.

Salvaging a relationship is not an easy task, yet if a couple considers not to separate in spite of the above reasons, they better swear not to hurt each other physically and emotionally because no matter how much love there is, they will find they don’t need to go back in that relationship if either one of them is not open to learning the power of give and take.