Many men have a scarcity in women. Some of them only have had one partner in their life or even worse no women at all! They are desperate, and because they are desperate they have even less chance on ever dating a woman. This becomes a vicious circle. However there are some things you can do to increase the amount of women you come in contact with. The purpose of this article therefore is to give you some practical tips to increase your dating chances.


One of the easiest ways to get in contact with more women on a weekly basis is joining a local salsa club. You will not only learn an exciting new dance, but most of the time these clubs are crowded with women, who need a dance partner. Besides, dancing is one of the most romantic things you can do with a woman, so it is also very easy to escalate.

Social Club

For the more lazy people, you can also join a social club. It does not matter which one you join, except for the Star Wars club or some other geeky club. This allows you to expand your social circle, and as a consequence you will meet more women automatically. If you are still in university, I would recommend joining a fraternity.

Daytime game

You can also approach women on the street, or on your way to work. There is nothing wrong with having a chat with someone in the public transport. You can talk about the weather, local news or sports. It doesn’t really matter what you talk about as long as you have the gut to approach.

Dating websites

If you are still very shy, I would recommend joining a dating website. Many of them are free. You can practice here talking with women online and maybe if the two of you connect, you can meet her in real life.


There are many ways to create abundance with women in your life. The most effective would be joining a dance club. However for more lazy people I would recommend a normal social club. If you are still a bit shy and do not have the guts to approach, practice on a dating website.