There are a lot of things mothers have to do to keep the family together. In today's world, a lot of mothers also have a job outside the home. At the end of the day, their job is not finished, as they have to worry about what to cook for the family. The problem with cooking is not always about the time it takes to cook. For most women, it is also about what to cook for their family. The irony is that children will probably eat French fries and hamburgers every day if you let them. Mothers know that the key to a healthy family is having a balanced diet. However, you don't always have the time to get the diet balanced. What you need to know is that your husband and children will eat their favorite food every day. You need to take advantage of that knowledge and go into default mode.
Let's analyze what the default mode is. If your family members love to eat pasta and pizza, those are the type of dishes you need to put into your default list. The day when you don't know what to cook and don't have enough time to prepare a variety of meal, you check your default list and make it happen. You family will be happy because that is what they love to eat and you will be less stressed.
Take a cue from Stir-fry
Have you noticed how Chinese restaurants have about 200 dishes on the menu? You go in there and order a meal and they will make it happen in about 15 minutes. How do they do that? The secret is simple and you can learn from that. They have most of the ingredients in the freezer or fridge. The meat and chicken are chopped and sometimes precooked and frozen. The trick is to reduce the amount of time it takes to get everything ready.
You can do the same by taking the time to prepare a lot of ingredients over the weekends. You can keep them in the fridge or freezer. When you get home after a long day at work, you don't have to go shopping on your way back. You get home knowing that all the ingredients you need are available. You just need to add a little olive oil into the frying pan and throw the ingredients, spices, salt etc, into it. In no time, you will have a meal ready for your family. It is so easy to do that you could also teach your husband.
Plan ahead and think big
There is no reason why cooking should be spontaneous. If you are a busy mother, you need to plan ahead. Get your family involved. Train them to be useful around the house. If they can't cook at least make sure they can clean up and do some other chores around the home. This will give you more time to think and cook for them. Another good thing to do is to think big. Take for example you have a family of 3 children, a husband, a dog and yourself. Instead of cooking all the time for 5 people, why not cook for 10. You divide the food and store the rest. That will be served at a later date. It will save you time because all you will have to do is, heat the food and serve.
There is a lot you can do to provide a balanced diet for your family. You need to think like a busy mother and cook like a busy mother. The key is to plan ahead and get everyone in your family involved. If they can eat, they can help to prepare the meal.