I want to share some of the tips which helped me to improve my dating life. here they are, Hope these points can help you to have better dates in future....
I know it’s a cliché but precisely what i mean by being yourself, show the woman your world than relying upon her. It’s OK to disagree on some level with the girl; there's no need to nod your head on everything what the girl says. It demonstrates you're a person of principles.
Work on your daily life
Maybe few people discuss this, but from my personal encounter and a few close friends helped me with those concepts that creating your daily life interesting will help you in your love life. Do things in your life what you love than sitting at your home using Facebook the entire day. Find some activities that you are good in and when its possible head over to gym, find activities which keeps you busy, if there's already many things running in your life than whether someone flakes you, nothing will really change since your everyday life is already interesting and there's a lot going on in your life already.
What I intended by this owning yourself is whatever you do it doesn’t really matter that girl has an interest in that thing particularly as an illustration if you are a nerd or perhaps you don’t actually know how to dress or you have a very funny haircut etc… it won't affect what so ever as long as you are comfortable about it, if you don't search for external affirmation to tell you that you look cool or whatever and every things originates from within believe me girl is going to love it. However, if you start counting on external validation than girl will probably sense it and may flake you most likely.
Nothing is personal
Say you are on your first date and girl isn't showing a lot attention or appearing unusual, its ok maybe there's a lot happening in her life, which she isn’t ready to speak with stranger. Maybe she got fired today or someone is sick in her family nevertheless she came with you on a date because she's given you her word. There is nothing personal, she's just inside of her head now that’s why she can’t see the awesome person in front of her but you never know later she'll realize she blew her chance.
Keep it playful
Maybe you’ve heard the idea of “if you could make a woman laugh, you're able to do anything” this really is so true. If you're maintaining things playful honestly and not manipulating in any shape or form I can assure you anything you will tell her she won’t turn you down. You may hear comedians saying stuff which can be highly controversial but as long as they are always keeping it playful no one is taking it seriously and going along with the comedian. But yet another thing again, don't be afraid to prove your wish towards her, if you like her don’t be shy to tell her or if wish to kiss her its ok to do this when you feel like it; do not wait until the end of the date.