Find God first
When young Christian men set out to find themselves a Christian girlfriend there are numerous things that should be taken into consideration before diving head first into dating and relationships. It's not just as simple as saying "I'm ready to date, let me go find someone now". Being ready isn't something as easy as wanting a girl and taking her out, but you have to have a lot of things sorted out before setting foot into that kind of terrain.
Your relationship with God
I heard a great saying that says "A woman's heart should be so lost in God that a man needs to seek him in order to find her". This quote is wonderful and really brings along the point that we as Christian men nee
Prepared to date and court
Before we set foot into the dating realm we need to make sure that we are prepared to handle a relationship. Many times we experience hurt in relationships and breakups because one or both parties were ill prepared to take on that endeavor. This includes things like finances, maturity, commitments, and our schedule. If you are heavily in debt, working 2 jobs and just want to relax when you get home because you are exhausted then you do not want to bring a girl into that situation and potentially hurt her. It's better for you to wait and take care of your life first so when God does bring that special girl into your life you are ready to make her feel special and not the next thing you have to take care of. It's important to have these things hashed out well before entering that state of our lives.
Initiate and pursue
So you have your life sorted out, at least for the most part! You know you are ready to treat a special Christian girl well and have a blast. So what's the next step to finding her? This is where it gets interesting because men have an inherit desire to pursue and "go on the h
Where to look for her?
The best way to find a Christian girl is in an environment that is welcoming for Christians to gather. This means church, young adult and college age groups, Christian concerts, and fun gatherings. Places that are more geared towards socializing are key. We'll never meet that special girl and get ready to initiate a conversation with her if everywhere we go there are rules and activities set out in stone. This means if you just go to church on Sunday minutes before the service starts and leave after it ends, there's no room for conversation and the chances of meeting that special Christian girl are reduced to almost nothing. Step up to the plate men and get out there and talk to the ladies in your groups and activities. Many of them aren't as scary as society makes them out to be, girls aren't laughing at you when you try. In fact the opposite is true where they like seeing men initiate because it shows confidence and a willingness to try and put their emotions on the line.
Go with God
While this all may seem like a lot to take in, it's very important to be prepared for all of these things before walking into a relationship with a potential Christian girlfriend and not knowing what to do. Don't walk into something with a huge mess behind the scenes as this will only hurt your chances of seeing a relationship sprout up. Instead take your time to get your life ready and then stan