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If you want to get your ex back from the guy sh is currently dating, then you should be able to compete in all possible aspects. Your history may not be something you can consider as an advantage, given all the reasons for your break up. But with the inside knowledge you have gained regarding her likes and dislikes, and what turns her on, along with the following tips, you have a better chance at being able to get her back and make her committed.

First, you have to make sure that you are able to weed out the motivations behind the break up. This doesn’t imply that you have to change yourself thoroughly since there are bound to be some quirks she likes about you. However, you should see to it that the attitude and frame of mind you had which irritated her is taken out of your system for good. Obviously, she will not be able to test that one out right away. So the next move you have to make is to expose yourself to her without being too pushy.

In fact, you don’t even need to establish communication right away. The second step is all about getting her attention and forming interest in what you have been up to. Casually show up in events that she is also attending or dine in places where you know she’s fond of hanging out. Once she sees you alone or with someone, she is bound to obsess about tracking your every move, even if you are not bothering her. That’s just how women are. So when you are about to take on this next step, make sure you also explore the third method of winning your ex back, which is improving your looks.

If you show up somewhere looking dishevelled, you will just convince her that she made the right choice by leaving you. This is not something you want to happen, especially if you’re intention is to get your ex back from the guy she’s currently dating. So always try to look your best. Highlight your assets, particularly those that your ex is crazy about. And if you have the time, improve those parts that used to be less than perfect. That should turn your ex girlfriend’s head around.

And then finally, make your move and then play hard to get. It is important that you stir old feelings back to the surface so you don’t have to play around with the “what ifs” with your ex girlfriend. Talk to her in person a few days after making an impression and tell her how you really feel using short, simple sentences. If you are given the chance, give her a kiss on the cheek before you walk away. And then avoid trying to contact her for a week. Within that span of time, you can bet that she will knock on your front door, sit you down, question you about her feelings and finally ask you to get her back.

If these do not work out as plotted though, don’t worry. There are other ways you can get your ex back from the guy she’s currently dating.