Congrat's! your dating someone. Maybe now you've been dating a while. And now is the time your asking the all important question. Where do I stand with him? Does he love me? Now your wondering where this relationship is going. The time has come to realize your importance in his life. This is a very important time in your life. Some things a girl needs to know in order to move forward. The sad truth is, you should know where this is going by now. If you have been dating a while, lets say 6 months to a year, then by now you should already know. If you don't know by now, there's a good chance there is a problem.
How to tell if he loves you is pretty simple, most people can tell if someone loves them fairly easily. However some things to consider when estimating his love towards you. Always remember too, that it really is the little things that matter most. If he is doing all the little important things, then chances are your good. If he remembers what kind of music, drinks and foods you like that's a great start. That tells you, he pays close attention to what you like. If he pays close attention to you, it means you are important enough to get his attention.
Next phone calls, yes phone calls are very important. If he calls you regularly then he is thinking of you regularly. If he is not calling you very often, then he is not thinking of you very often. That would be a warning sign that you are not that important to him. However if he is calling you often, then apparently he enjoys talking to you and wants to be close.
Another way to tell if he loves you, if he has made you part of his circle of friends. If he has made you part of his circle, then you are a part of his life. If you are a part of his life, then more than likely he loves you. He will make you a part of his circle of friends because he is proud to have you. And he wants his friends to understand that your a part of his life. If he has not done this, then its a slim chance your very important to him.
Another clue he loves you, is when he has taken you home to meet mom. If he has introduced you to his family, chances are he is thinking your the one. Its a strong sign of permanence in his life. If he has let you in his life, he loves you. If he has made you a part of his world, he loves you. If he has not made you part of his world he loves you not.