Moving on to another relationship, at some point, after you've found out your spouse has cheated is not going to be easy. When you reach the  point when you  want to enter into another relationship  you will find that you will have a hard time trusting again. If you want to have a good relationship after cheating you may need some help with your trust issues.

Don't ever feel uncomfortable with the idea of going to a counselor. There are times when all of us can benefit from an objective third party who will show us the way to find happiness.

If you've let your guard down and trusted someone only to have them let you down, you know how much that betrayal can hurt. But please don't close yourself off to love, that will hurt even more in the long run.

Instead you need to understand that the person who cheated is flawed and unless they get the help they need they will never have a meaningful relationship.

For you, it's important to get the help you need to cope with the impact that their cheating has had on you. If you date one cheater after another you have to face the fact that there is something you are doing that is attracting these types of people.

You've heard the saying "once is a fluke, twice is a coincidence but three time is a pattern". If you seem to hook up with one cheater after another it isn't just bad luck. No matter how hard it may be for you to believe, there is some "Vibe" you are giving off that attracts that type of person.

And no, you are not doing it on purpose and it's very subtle, whatever it is. You simply need to identify what and why you are doing so you can change and start attracting someone decent into your life.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying it's your fault, that you deserve it or even that you want it. I'm saying that they are picking up on something within you. Maybe you don't really feel like you are worth being loved, maybe it's something else, but there is something there.

Spending some time with a therapist is the best way to figure it all out before you just repeat the same pattern again. Do yourself a favor and give yourself a chance at having a great relationship after cheating, by figuring out why you are a cheater magnet. You deserve better.