Still Wondering If He Is Still In Love With You?
Love is the greatest gift to mankind, and anyone that finds true love, has found joy. But most often in life, the problem is how to know if someone truly loves us or not. And this uncertainty can be attributed to the nature of human, which can be traced back to creation, hence, making it difficult for us to know exactly when our partners truly love us or not. However, certain modalities stand as a good test of determining if our partner loves us or not. I am also aware of the fact that sometimes in our lives, we are trapped in the middle of a relationship, not knowing what to do, whether to move front or to go back, and our minds are just confused on what to do or what not to do. Situations like this may arise as a result of insecurity of the mind or due to past negative experiences which may have resulted to the destruction of trust in our individual hearts, and hence, making it difficult for us to know exactly if our partner loves us or not.
Have you been wondering and bordering if that man or guy you are dating for years or months now truly loves you? Are you skeptical of how much love he has for you? Do you truly want to know the truth? Then, you are in the right place because this write up is going to enlighten you about men, and make you know if that guy you’re dating truly loves you or not. And don’t forget that now is the right time for you to know exactly if he truly loves you or not. I know for sure that you’re beginning to ponder in your heart; what is this guy going to tell me that I have not heard or read in the past? But I bet your life will never remain the same after reading through this article! Now, all I want you to do for me is to adjust your reading glasses, take a whooping sip from your juice drink, sit back and then clear your brains off every previous fallacy or doubt, and then read on.
After reading this article, you will discover for yourself whether that guy you are dating loves you, or if he is moving around sleeping with other girls in town and still deceiving you with the usual statement of ‘I love you baby’. Remember, all this knowledge is for free, just because you are eager to know and have taken a bold step to discover the truth. Before I move on, let me ask you for the one and only time; are you truly prepared to know this truth? Is your mind ready to accept the truth? If you have answered yes to those questions, I would like to invite you to explore with me, these twenty-first century secrets to knowing the playboys. But then, you must assure me that you won’t let him know that you sneaked out with me on a lesson on this delicate topic, else, he may get me jailed for life, and who knows what might be my fate thereafter?
I know I have withheld this truth for long, now, let me let this heaven loose by the way…firstly, I must tell you that if a guy truly loves you, it is definite that his feelings and emotions must be clearly reflected in his behaviors, expressions, passion and actions alike, towards you and anything that concerns you. That is truth number one on this lesson. Contrary, if he doesn’t reflect this feelings and emotions for you through the afore-mentioned mediums, ha-ha-ha…he might be one of those playboys in town. Please don’t judge him yet, so we don’t end up in a hasty conclusion based on an insufficient fact, be patient.
One other obvious sign that tells you, if a guy truly loves you, is his dressing style. This must change to your favorites, if and only if he truly loves you. Now what do you do? Start now to observe this ignorable change, or better still, you can reflect back to when you first met him, how does he usually dress? Is he a guy that cares less about the way he dresses? Is he the type of guy that just put on whatever he sees or lays his hands on, in the name of wearing a clothe? If your answer is yes, then you must find out how much he has improved on his dressing habit ever since you guys started dating. If his dressing style presently is okay and impressive, both to you and your friends who used to complain of his dressing mode in the past, then there is greater possibility that he loves you.
Secondly, how often does he enjoy glancing at you secretly, especially when he knows that you are not aware? Do not ignore this sign because if a guy truly loves you, he will always like to steal glances at you when you’re not aware, and most often, you will catch him doing this. It is also worthy to note his reactions whenever you catch him doing this, for instance, does he usually shift his eyes away to avoid you from noticing that he was glancing at you? This is a small but vital sign that tells you if a guy loves you, or is admiring you.
Thirdly, and most importantly, how often is he ready or has he helped you out when you were in a particular tight situation or sort of problem? Or does he sit back and watch you suffer and toil in pains? If he do offers his hand for help, it’s a very good sign of true love.
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Communication- Communication is another good way to know if a guy truly loves you. You must watch out how he enjoys communicating with you because I am a guy, and we guys love chatting with girls we love. As a matter of fact, a guy that truly loves you will always want to discuss issues with you, be it on sports, current affairs, legal matters, relationship or any topic you may think of. In fact, you are his best confidant and partner in gossip. He will naturally become fond of sharing stories and events that took place in your absence with you. But if on the contrary, he is always being cautious of his choice of words, language and grammar when chatting with you, maybe he starts to use vocabulary English, refined and carefully selected words, probably, he doesn’t love you as much as you think, and that’s why he is not feeling free. Obviously, he is still on the side of impressing you, which has not truly manifested to true love.
Don’t forget that if a guy truly loves you, he will obviously love to chat with you just the same way he chats with his best male friends. As a matter of fact, he doesn’t necessarily have to use vocabulary English, instead he uses slangs, jargons and all the usual words that he uses when chatting with his best friends, except rude words. In order words, if he selects words just because you are around, be careful, he is up to something; maybe he’s trying to deceive you with the impression that he is a Mr. Right.
Another important factor that determines if a guy truly loves you is his reactions to your moods. You must find out if he’s always happy when you’re happy, or does he always inflict more pains to you when you’re angry or sad? If this is what he does, then you don’t need a fortuneteller to tell you that he does not love you in any way; it may be that he only likes you or just co-habiting with you temporary. Don’t forget the fact that we men love seeing our women in a happy mood always, and so, a guy that truly loves you would do anything within his reach to make you happy as well.
Jealousness is love
Whoever that told you that he is not a jealous lover, is absolutely not in love because love itself is jealous, and God Himself being God demonstrated this in his first commandment in the Bible, in which He boldly told us his children that He is a jealous God and wouldn’t stand our worshipping another god. Now, I want you to carry out a test of jealousy in him, as a way of knowing how much he loves you. To do this, I want you to go out with some other of your friends, probably male friends, have your fun and make sure you enjoy a long and nice chat with them, pretend you are ignoring him, and see if he’s jealous about this, if he is, it is a clear indication of love.
Please and please, don’t be fooled by such statements, “I am not a jealous lover” because every person that is in love, is always jealous, it is natural, not artificial, and it cannot be held back. But if you insist that you are not a jealous lover, and you are sure you love your partner, tell your partner to start going out with your friend or a neighbor, who must be someone of the opposite sex, and then watch them kiss or exchange warm embrace, and after that, evaluate your feelings.
Another simple way to find out if a guy truly loves you is to evaluate how often or how much he enjoys going out with you on a walk, in company of his friends, colleagues or even to religious worships. There is no two ways about it that, if a guy doesn’t love you, he won’t be proud going out with you, it is as simple as that, take it or leave it, but that’s the simple truth. A guy that doesn’t love you will only enjoy spending time with you in the secret places like in bedrooms, hide outs, street corners or at midnights. Remember, they do this for a reason best known to the guy alone; it may be that he is avoiding himself from being spotted by someone else he is strongly in love with or admiring. Or it may be that he doesn’t want other ladies within the environment to notice that he is hooked up with someone, since maybe he’s just using you to while away his lonely times while waiting for his dream girl.
Another important factor is the issue of being proud of you as his girl. Maybe you don’t know, or you know and don’t want to pay attention to it, but for the fact that you are reading this article, I want you to know once again (if you already knew) that men love boasting of the girl they love when they are with their best friends. In order words, you must personally find out from today how often he tells his friends or relatives about you? Does he usually hide your relationship with him from these people that matters in his life? If yes, he may not be in love with you, so you better be careful and mind the time you’re investing in the relationship.
Sometimes, when I see the way some guys treat ladies, I feel pity for the ladies. Ladies are supposed to be treated with care and respect, but most often, it is otherwise. And most times again, I do blame them for the mistreatments they most times receive from certain guys, anyway, that is one of those things that makes this world a callous place. You know, we guys sometimes act like dogs; we only focus on having sexual intercourse with a girl, and the moment we achieve that, we kick her off like football. It’s so unscrupulous that most guys care just about sex, and by the way, what is sex? Something that gives just an instant pleasure, and that’s it, and yet, we attach so much value and stress to it as if the pleasure do last for a lifetime. Why am I telling this cock and bull story? I am telling this story because I want you to know from today that any guy that’s so curious and eager to have sexual intercourse with you, doesn’t in any way love you, so don’t be fooled, he doesn’t love you at all.
Remember, sex is not love and love is not sex. In order words, sex is an emotional bond that binds two hearts in an emotional love when exercised on the mutual grounds of emotional parity. Therefore, no one can define exactly if sex is true love or not, it all depends on the two parties’ mindsets which can be defined through their actions in the relationship. But a guy that loves you will always consider your emotions and feelings, he will never force you to have sex with him, and never will he request for it at the onset of a relationship, rather he allows it to envelope gradually and naturally, it must, for sure, but that should be in marriage, and if it must be before marriage as it is widely practiced, it shouldn’t be the top agenda of the relationship.
Lastly, if a guy truly loves you, he is naturally compelled to telling you about his past life, both the bad and the good ones, unless he has not yet developed trust in you. But if he has, he won’t know when he will do this; guys are not much complicated like ladies.
Above all, we are all humans, which makes it impossible for us to read minds, yet, we can predict peoples’ minds through their actions, therefore, in order for you to know if a guy truly loves you or not, you must pay closer attention to his actions and behaviors than to his words. Don’t be surprised that a guy might tell you ‘I love you’ a hundred times, and deep inside his mind, he is saying, ‘I don’t think this girl is the right girl for me,’ that’s guys for you.
Note: A guy spending so much money and cash on you, doesn’t necessarily translate that he truly loves you. Please don’t be fooled by material things, you are bigger than that, your love worth more than material things or cash, unless you are still out to catch some fun with guys. Remember, some guys believe on spend it, if you have it, so they spend it on any girl they come across just to have fun with the girl at that very moment, it has nothing to do with love. In order words, telling your friends that “he likes spending on me, I am madly in love with him and I know he is madly in love with me too,” is a mere illusion and fallacy! Money has no reputable connection with true love; neither can we dispute financial assistance at need with true love.
In conclusion, a guy that loves you, will always talk and boast about you in your absence, even when he is with his friends, he tries to raise issues concerning ladies, just to throw in something about you. Therefore, do your best and get more acquainted with his best friends, this will help you to discover more things about him and will also help you to find out how much he loves you, because his friends are your best tool, get close to them, but not intimate as most ladies end up doing yet, I can’t stop you from searching for your true love.