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How To Seduce A Woman

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How To Seduce A Woman

 

 

The first step in learning how to seduce a woman is you have to understand the way women think and what they are seeking in a mate. Most men live their entire lives clueless about the psychology of women's minds and really don't know what they are doing when it comes to seduction. This is easy to understand however as most men agree that women can be pretty complicated creatures. Beautiful, but complicated. Like John Gray famously says: “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus!”.

 

If you really want to learn how to seduce a woman, you have to understand that there is no simple paint-by-numbers formula to this. It's actually more of a set of rules and guidelines you should use as your foundation to fully seduce a woman physically, mentally, and spiritually. The truth however is that when you understand human psychology, you'll quickly realize that women are not as complicated as most people believe. Humans are pretty simple to understand once you figure it out.

 

Second of all, you need to figure out what the main differences are between men and women if you want to become successful at this. Remember that women are seduced intellectually before they are seduced emotionally or physically. You have to seduce her mind before anything else.

 

One crucial skill you should develop as a man to become a master seducer like Casanova is that you need to become a master communicator. Communication skills can be learned in a number of ways including public speaking classes. These skills will help you not only in your love life but are said to lead to greater financial success among other things. Also, you must realize that every woman is unique and you need to completely understand the woman you'd like to seduce before you can get her. Think of the movie What Women Want for instance. You need to know as much as you can about the way she thinks first. Getting to know her deeply is the best investment of your time in seduction. Talk to her. Learn about her from mutual friends. Find out what her interests are, her dreams, her goals, etc...

 

You need to remember to be patient in seduction. You cannot rush through the seduction process because this will lead to mediocre results. Take your time to create the best possible outcome. Women do not like being rushed into things either for that matter. So, make sure you give her plenty of space and time. They love it when a real man takes his time in getting to know her instead of immediately showing romantic interest. Most women have their guard up all the time when it comes to men because of their past. They're used to being manipulated and being lied to just for sex. So, you have to win her over and prove to her that you have the noblest of intentions. Being patient and taking things slow is one of the greatest ways to prove it to her.

 

Women love it when you make them feel special. They also really enjoy it when you are romantic. Think about this way. They grew up watching fairy tales and watching romantic movies so they expect you to put in a decent amount of effort to win them over. You have to be their prince charming. Being romantic is one of the best ways to really seduce a woman. This shows that you genuinely care about her and that you know how to treat a woman – with respect and love. Never underestimate the power of romance in seduction.

 

The next thing you must do is build your self-esteem and your self-confidence when it comes to seducing women.

 

Confidence is king in the seduction game. When you radiate self-confidence and high self-esteem, women will assume you are successful or will become successful. They love confident men. This is not because they are looking for men who will earn more money. The real reason is because it is instinctual for them to seek out a strong male.

 

They are looking for men who are happy with themselves. They instinctualy know that men with self-confidence are less likely to cheat on them than insecure men. Remember, that they are looking for a mate, someone with strong genes. It's part of human evolution. So, you need to work on yourself if you want success in the seduction game. Strive to continually improve yourself in every single way every single day. This is crucial to your success. The more you build yourself up, the more confident you will become, and the easier it will be for you to seduce a woman.

 

When a man is happy with himself, he is more likely to be stable and safe financially when it comes to job stability and women recognize that he is the type of man that would be able to provide for their family down the road. Most women are not just looking for sex, but a real relationship or at the very least a real connection. So, you have to become the type of man that a woman would like to connect with.

 

I cannot re-emphasize enough how important it is to show your woman respect. You have to see her as your equal.

 

You either have the self-confidence you need in seduction or you don't. That's the reality of the situation. If you're not especially self-confident right now, don't despair. Like I mentioned before, this is something you can build, you can develop. Become interested in your own self-development as a man. Become the best man you can be.

 

A great way to increase your self-confidence is to take an inventory of all your qualities like your sense of humour or your intelligence for example. Make a list and look at it every single day. Women are not all after a billionaire or the president of the USA. They're just looking for a man who is happy with himself.

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Comments

Aug 29, 2011 6:16pm
Lynsuz
Chris Matthews I think just maybe you have hit a few nails on the heads here. You don't have to be prince charming, you just have to be honest with your feelings.Honesty and good communication are great points. A great tip would be, how does the man treat his mother, if he treats her with respect, more than likely he has been raised to care for the women folk. Also, if you treat a women with respect more than likely you'll get the same in return. Great article..
Nov 8, 2011 6:10am
impact
Thanks for the feedback Lynsuz!
I have heard about that before... I remember reading somewhere that you can tell a lot about how a man will treat his future wife by the wife he treats his mother! It's strange but it's true... Thanks for bringing that up!
I completely agree with you and think respect will be reciprocated in most cases.
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