Being known as loser or deadbeat person is a tough pill for most people to swallow. Theres nothing worse than people who walk all over you or who don't think you are important. I am here to tell you that you are someone no matter what people may think of you. There are steps you can take that will help you to become a more likeable and respected person. Read on to learn how to become a better person for yourself.
Confidence is a must. If you want to stop being a loser, then you must have confidence and not be afraid to think outside of the box or be different. You should also be able to stand up to anyone and feel that you are worthy of being in the same place as anyone or being able to talk to anyone you please. Don't ever let anyone try to make you feel that you are worth less than what your self worth is and don't ever let anyone else walk over you ever again! You have to stand up and be confident in yourself.
Next, you should practice giving your opinion to others even if your opinion isn't asked for. This shows others that you aren't afraid to speak your mind and fire off your opinion. It also shows people that you have have outlooks and views on everything just as well even if they thought less of you before.
You want to make sure you are a person of honor, dignity, and respect. You should always be respectful of people and their beliefs and ways. You also need to have honor and courage about yourself and be a man or woman of dignity. If you say you are going to do something then make sure you follow through and do it. This will gain you more respect and admiration from the people around you. If you tell the truth and respect people then they will return the love back to you. There is nothing that speaks more about a man than a man or woman who is of word of their word and you have honor and dignity.
You also need to be good at socializing with people. Being very social and outgoing is essential to being a popular and well liked person and not being labeled as a boring person or a loser. You should try to develop as many close relationships with different people as possible. Listen to people and let them do more talking. God gave you 2 ears and 1 mouth for reason. Smile! If you aren't very social then you run the risk of being labeled as a loser or someone who is not important.
In conclusion, if you follow these tips then you will be more liked and loved by people from all walks of life and people will come to respect you for who you are.