Signs A Girl Likes You...
If you find yourself really into a girl but are unsure if she shares the same feelings, you might find yourself experiencing some anxiety and wondering how to tell if a girl likes you. It's hard not knowing if the feelings you feel are reciprocated or not. While asking someone out on a date seems simple enough, it's not always that easy, especially if you're not sure if she wants to go out with you. As humans, we are ego driven, whether we want to admit it or not. No one likes to be rejected, and sometimes, we will go to great lengths in order to avoid it. If you're already dating the person, you might want to know if she is into you and wants to take your relationship to the next level. This article will give you some tips so that you can figure out if the girl you like is into you back.
Unfortunately, there is no guaranteed trick to make a girl fall in love with you. Sure, it would be nice, but there is just no such thing. There are places online that sell e-books to make girls want you, and motivational videos to teach you how to snag a chick, but chances are, it's best to just let it happen naturally. There are no colognes or special scents that attract women like bees to honey. Besides, would you really want to have to admit down the road that you used some strange love technique to get a date? As once said on I Love Lucy, you would have some serious 'splainin' to do...
Start out by being honest with yourself, and look at the situation objectively. If everyone around you is telling you to stop pushing something that isn't there, or to leave the girl alone, you might want to reconsider your motives. Sometimes, although painful, being honest with yourself can save you a lot of heartache in the long run. On the other hand, if others think that she likes you, take that as a step in the right direction. Is she watching you? Finding an excuse to come by and talk to you all the time? It's a positive sign- yay!
Is she returning your phone calls? Does she answer the phone when you call, or does it go straight to voice mail? As cell phone users, we have become quite accustomed to the feeling of going straight to voice mail when the person on the other end sends you straight to their voice mail. This can be an easy indicator as to whether or not she wants to speak to you, or is trying to avoid you. If you're trying to tell if she really likes you or not, whether or not she takes your calls is a pretty reliable indicator. If you're looking for signs that a girl likes you, this is a pretty clear one.
Does the girl you like treat you the same way when there are other people around? The way a person treats you both behind closed doors and in front of others can speak volumes about how they really feel about you. If she treats you poorly, or allows others to be disrespectful to you in her presence, chances are, she doesn't feel the same way about you as you do about her.
Is she readily available to make plans with you, or does she need to wash her hair.... again? If she continues to not be available to socialize or spend time with you, chances are she doesn't enjoy your company. This can be painful truth, but still truth nonetheless. If the girl of your dreams can't stand to be around you, she may not be the girl of your dreams after all. Move on, and find someone special who is really worth your time.