It is hard being with losers and bad boyfriends. You should do yourself a favor and really date someone who is good for you and make you feel great about being in a relationship. You don't need to set-up an account with or eHarmony to find a great guy. It just takes a few tips. Read on.

Things You Will Need

An Open Mind

Step 1

You will first have to list things that you would want in a man. The list should be as long and as dreamy as possible. You may only get a little less than half of them so make sure you have a lot. Have things that are very important to you and rate these as 'must have.'

Step 2

Now that you have a good list start playing the game. Start meeting new guys at where you work or go to school. Don't tell any guy about your list or post it on your locker or facebook. Just start talking to guys and finding things about them.

Step 3

If you meet a guy that you may be interested in you should try to make a date. Now you can talk about your interests and find out what kind of person he is. You should remember your list in your head as he tells you about what he wants to do or what he wants to accomplish in life.

Step 4

Try not to lead all of the men own a this will draw all of them away. You may even draw the guy that could be perfect for you. A harmless date is fine but constant text or hanging out in the wee hours will make them suspicious.

Step 5

Once you find a guy that has a lot of the qualities on your list make another date with him.

Tips & Warnings