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How to Flirt

By Edited Nov 13, 2013 0 1

One of the weapons of most people when it comes to meeting members of the opposite sex is knowing how to flirt. There is an art form to knowing how to take a basic interaction with another person and turning it into something special. The problem is that no one takes the time to teach this to people as they grow up. So for the most part, people either know how to flirt or they do not. The good news is that this does not have to be the case any longer. This basic step by step guide will help you to know how to flirt.
Step One
Choose someone that you wish to flirt with. If this is your first time taking this method out for a test drive, you will want to pick a person that you do not feel intimidated by. Once you become an expert on how to flirt, you can choose the hottest person in the room and go up to them. For now, lets keep it simples. Remember success will breed confidence in your abilities.
Step Two
If you are not already talking to this person for some reason, you need to get their attention. There is an art to this for how to flirt. You want to seem interested. You do not want to seem like a stalker. Put your most radiant smile on your face. To flirt like a pro, this needs to be a genuine smile. Do not use a fake one. Look at the person for a few seconds and then look away. If you can make eye contact, that is an even better thing. The reason that you only want to look for a few seconds at a time is because almost everyone will get weirded out by someone staring at them.
Step Three
Now that you are talking with the person that you want to flirt with, it is really time to kick into action. The first thing that you need to do to smile and act like talking to this person is the best thing that you have done all day. People are attracted to people who are happy to enjoy spending time with them. This is one of the simple truths to knowing how to flirt.
Step Four
Ask the person engaging questions about themselves. Find topics that they are very interested in and become very interested in finding out more information about it. Common interests are the things that relationships are often built on. Another key to this step on how to flirt is that most people like to talk about themselves. This will also be a big neon sign that you are interested.
Step Five
Mimic their body language. Please do not be obvious about this. You will send the person that you want to flirt with screaming into the night if you are obvious. What you want to do is to find subtle movements and mimic them. If the person is leaning forward in their chair, you lean forward. If they cross their legs, you do the same. Now you get the idea of how to do this. One tip to keep in mind is to find only one action to mimic at a time.
Step Six
If possible make a little body contact. This is not a have to step in the how to flirt handbook. If the opportunity arises, you can make some contact with the person. Some ideas of how to do this would include gently bumping into them, quickly touching them with your hand for a brief moment, or allow your knee to touch theirs if you are sitting next to them.



Aug 9, 2010 11:08am
good tips, but i guess it all useless untill you feel confidence meeting opposite sex. just dont be shy, be your own self and everything will be OK!
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