How to forget someone
All over the world people admit that love is a very powerful force that can make a human being do just about anything for the one they are in love with. Indeed this is true and love is as a matter of fact one of the feelings that make a person inspired to achieve more and to be happy. Love can alter the way a person thinks and how they behave, it is such a powerful force that can make a person transform into something else in just a few days and that is why when it ends the devastation is always more than one can handle. When two people break up a relationship for one reason or the other, there is always some form of pain that is experienced which makes it hard for either one person or both of them to move on.
However it is prudent for both parties to find ways to move on from a broken relationship, this is because hanging on to the memories of the past may have very huge bearing on the present life of the parties concerned. It is important for you to realize that keeping your mind on the person who you broke up with may very well paralyze your thinking if you are not very careful and that is why you must start the process of forgetting the past and starting to find new ways of moving into the future. So what are some of the things that you can do to forget the person you love? Well quite frankly you won’t forget them in one or two days but with a good plan it may take just about a week or two.
The first thing that you need to do is to stop hoping that you will make up again after a while. If you keep thinking of making up then there is no way you are going to forget the person you broke up with. The next thing that you must do is to get rid of everything that may remind you of that person. Things like sweaters, pictures, shoes and personal stuff that they may have left at your place must be taken out of the picture. You can burn them, donate to charity or return them to the person just so you have nothing to remind you of them. Another thing that you must absolutely avoid is going to places where you two used to meet or hang out on romantic dates or else the memories will come back in a rush.
You must also stop pretending of how strong you are and how the other person does not deserve your tears it will only make you hold on to anger and hence your pain will always remain and as long as you have that pain, you will never really forget. Just let it all out, go to your friends, your mum, your sister or just anyone who loves you and cry on their shoulder until the tears run dry; afterward you will feel some relief and that is when you are able to start thinking of the future. Remember your partner is now in the past and you are now the most important thing in the world, whatever the other person does or wherever they go is none of your business.
Life from now on is jus about you and how your future must be.
Enjoy your life and be happy.