Getting a girl to like you is no easy task. Almost every man in the world has been in a situation where he has liked, lusted or loved a woman and she didn't feel the same way for him. Maybe he just watched from afar, maybe he made his move and was blow out. Maybe he was friends with her but never could take it to the next level. This is a very common theme in history and today's world.
So how exactly do you get a girl to like you?
There are no quick fix solutions to this problem. There is no "red pill" taking a matrix quote. You can't just read an article or a book, or watch a video and expect to suddenly be able to get the girl of your dreams. To get that girl, or girls in general to like you, you must work on yourself.
But first, let's try and understand what girls look for in a man to give you a little perspective and direction.
There are a few key qualities to observe. Firstly, girls are more attracted to social status, while men are attracted to physical looks. This, of course, is a high level statement, as there are many other factors that will come into play when choosing a mate, but on the whole, these are the two biggest switches.
So what is social status? It is a combination of the following:
- Social Intelligence
Different girls give weight to different qualities. Some may just be looking for money. Some may value confidence and humor. Some may want someone who is very passionate. But all girls react to all of these qualities at some level.
Ideally, you want to work on all of them. The more of these qualities you possess, the higher 'quality' woman you will be able to attain.
Another thing to note is that just because you have one or more of these qualities, every time you meet a new girl, she won't know you have them most of the time, so you have to display these qualities. Notice I said 'display' not 'tell her about'. Bragging will get you nowhere. Just make sure when you are out and about, you are showing you are confident and funny. Socially intelligent and passionate. That you have status and wealth. As opposed to displaying the opposite. Also, if you, for example don't have wealth, try and play it down by focusing on your confident and humorous qualities.
As mentioned earlier, these qualities are not easy to come by. But focusing on them will help your cause to getting girls to like you.