Are You Using Mindless Chores as An Excuse to Avoid Taking Action That Will Change Your Life?
There are lots of ways to measure a day's productivity, but recently, I had an "aha!" moment that caused me to change the way I look at this issue, and it has made all the difference in what I'm getting done, and more important, what essential work I am getting done. I measure whether a day is productive by how many dirty dishes are in the sink. There was a time when I would consider a day productive if the sink was empty, its aluminum surface polished and dry, and kitchen floor spotless for good measure. Now, a productive day can be one in which the sink is piled high with dirty dishes, the laundry baskets are overflowing, and my email inboxes are filled with burgeoning junk, but more productive actions get completed.
Don't get me wrong. It's not that I don't consider housework constructive. On the contrary, I love traditional housework; dishes, laundry, vacuuming. You name it. I love them all because I love the idea of a spotless, gern-free home. The Husband accuses me of "germophobia" on a regular basis, and I'd to see anyone tell me that after I've invested lots of time and energy cleaning my house that I just wasted my time (and you'd probably like to see it too, because I'm here to tell you up front, that this busy body is risking a fat lip). So why do I say that time spent doing housework is not time spent in a constructive way?
Constructive Activity v. Productive Activity
I didn't say it isn't constructive. I said it wasn't productive. Understanding the difference between those terms is a critical crossroads in your future. You can be using time in an extremely constructive way because you are accomplishing short-term, one-off goals, while at the same time destroying your long-term productivity, and making it impossible for you to hit your important targets, such as starting a business, finishing a degree, writing a book, or any other life-changing objective. Unfortunately, in many ways it is a lot more appealing, and not just for me, to just "get something done," even if that accomplishment doesn't make a real difference in your life at the end of the day, or more likely, the end of the month and the end of the year.
Even people who don't enjoy housework often prefer it, or other similar tasks like running routine errands (I'm not even going to mention updating your social networking sites) to doing what is actually a lot more difficult; that is, the hard work of setting objectives and deadlines for projects that would, after devoting sufficient time and effort to a carefully-planned workflow, actually change their lives. In short, hard work pays off over time, but unthinking rote activity feels good right now, especially since it provides the illusion that you are accomplishing something.
Another example of creative procrastination is compulsive exercising. Exercise is an essential component of a healthy lifestyle, of course, and yes, you are accomplishing something when you do it, but is that something related to your career and life goals? Exercising is like flossing your teeth. It's something you've got to do, but unless you are a 90 year-old retiree with no big plans, it shouldn't be the focus of the day. If you are working out in the middle of the day, rather than getting up at 6 a.m. to do it, you could be using it as an avoidance strategy.
Another phrase for Creative Procrastination is Active Avoidance
Creative procrastination might be more accurately called active avoidance. I define it as the thought process that results in one choosing to be seduced into doing intellectually easy, rote tasks rather than more challenging brain work such as coming up with new business ideas, goal setting, and creating meaningful deadlines. While these activities require that the highest reaches of your cerebral cortex by firing on all cylinders, contrast the degree of intellectual rigor and creativity that housework or simple office tasks like routine office organization demand. With those jobs, the objective is clear, and the action steps are already there for you. Your higher brain can be on autopilot. You can daydream or even watch tv while you're doing these things. No wonder you'd rather throw yourself into a frenzy of semi-mindless activity that offers a short-term payoff rather than sit staring at your computer screen trying to figure out what to do next.
How can you tell if you are engaging in creative procrastination?
If you do this activity consistently and diligently for the next 6 months, will the things in your life that you currently find unsatisfactory be changed for the better?
- Will this activity help your reach an important goal? (If you said, "what goals?" then perhaps you have an idea why you may not be getting as far as you'd like.)
- Is this something that you could outsource to someone else? The story goes that legendary Broadway producer Billy Rose could type faster than his secretary. He had come up as a clerical worker back in the early part of the 20th century when it wasn't uncommon for men to be secretaries. Still, even though his fingers flew across the keyboard, he had to let his secretary do the typing. Why? Because while both of them could type, only he could produce plays.
- Is this something you could do during your less productive hours with little loss in quality? I am certainly not advocating that you allow your home to descend into squalor, and that you forego making sure you have the necessities of life in your cupboard. I am suggesting that rather than taking care of these essential tasks doing the morning or middle of the day, when your energy is higher, you do them after you have made some progress on your priorities. Only you can judge when you are at your peak. The important thing is to make sure that you are using that time on your most important projects, not reorganizing your sock drawer.
If you think you might be engaging in creative procrastination, here are some action steps you can try.
- Before you jump into a flurry of activity, so that you just "do something," sit and remember the objectives that you'd like to reach 6 months and a year from now. Make these very specific and measurable. Instead of "I want to make more money," say "Within 6 months, I want to be earning an extra $300 a month that I'll use to get out of debt." Weigh every decision how you spent your time that day against that objective. If it doesn't advance it, it can wait until you are ready to take a break, or even until the end of the work day.
- Don't allow yourself to become a slave to email. Don't check your email first thing in the morning. Instead, wait until you have settled into a workflow, and when you reach a convenient break time, then check it. As convenient as it can be, email is a double-edged sword. It can drag you all over the dance floor when what you need to do is focus.
- Forget the discredited idea of "multi-tasking." There is no such thing. The human mind can focus on only one thing at a time. Once you accept that truth, you'll be able to accomplish a lot more. Focus on your priorities and stay in the moment.
Now that you recognize what a threat creative procrastination is to your ultimate success and happiness, I'm sure you realize how important it is to correct course immediately when you catch yourself lapsing into it. Henry Ford once said "Thinking is hard. That's why so few do it." That's also why successful people spend more time thinking, planning and goal setting than engaging in mindless activity, always very busy, and never really getting anywhere.
In Part 2 of this series, we'll unpack the three essentials that you need to accomplish any goal.
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