Self-confidence pertains to the positive perception a person has on his abilities and capacity as an individual. A person who has ample self-confidence has a strong sense of what he can achieve and is not limited by any negative and unrealistic views about his self-worth. Being confident does not mean actually having unlimited abilities and talents; in contrast, a confident person knows what he can do and what he cannot do. The key aspect here is in being realistic, because there is a huge difference between a person who is delusional about his confidence and the one who is realistic about his self-perception.
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Having a healthy amount of self-confidence also means that you do not feel helpless when things do not go right. Setbacks are inevitable, and should be considered as learning opportunities rather than failures. In fact, setbacks are part of the growth process wherein normal human beings are supposed to acquire abilities and skills that are necessary to achieve goals.
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Self-confidence also entails being independent. If a person needs the approval of others in order to reinforce your qualities, then your self-worth may be not be as strong as the next person who can rely on himself to feel worthy and confident. Acceptance of oneself is a crucial factor in developing self-confidence, unimpaired by negative self-criticism which is a quick way to diminish confidence. Depending on others to reassure of your worthiness is risky because that reassurance can be withdrawn at any given time.
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There are many qualities that follow once a person is self-confident. He becomes self-sufficient, independent, realistic and goal-oriented. Confidence extends throughout a person’s life, although there are areas in our lives where we don’t feel entirely secure. Just keep in mind that each individual has his own areas of expertise and waterloos, some are athletic while some are academic. There are people who excel in their social lives, some work best when they are alone. This is why we are all gifted with an opportunity to explore our individuality.
Training Children to be Self-Confident
Parents and their attitude towards life greatly affect the development of a child’s self-confidence. When parents accept their children as they are, without pushing or putting pressure on them to be someone other than who they want to be. When parents acknowledge their child’s individuality, he learns that it is alright to be himself. Without constant disapproval, criticism, overprotection and criticism, the child does not harbor guilty thoughts and feelings of inadequacy and inferiority.Credit: http://www.drugfreehomes.org/2011/04/causes-risks-teen-peer-pressure.html
Peer pressure can also impact a child’s perception of self-worth. If the child puts more importance on what his peers think of him, rather than his own opinion of himself, the child becomes overly dependent on the influences and expectations of others. This is all the more true of teenagers who are in school, who tend to seek out approval and positive reinforcement from people to whom they look up. However, if the child is provided positive criticism and feedback, along with making him understand the repercussions of his decisions, he will understand that he is given freedom to explore his potential.
Self-confidence is developed from early childhood and continues as a lifelong process. Once a person has a healthy amount of self-confidence, a long list of positive qualities follow, which will help a person achieve his goals and have an enriching life.