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Stardew Valley Marriage Guide - How to Woo, Marry, and Reproduce

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As with its spiritual predecessors Harvest Moon and Rune Factory, Stardew Valley puts players in the shoes of a city boy who arrives in the small town of Stardew Valley in order to start life over as a farmer, but let's have some real talk for a moment. While farming, mining, fishing, and other ways of making cold, hard cash will take up the majority of your time, the biggest satisfaction from games like Stardew Valley comes from marrying whatever villager strikes your fancy. However, while more methodical than real life relationships, wooing, marrying, and raising children with your spouse of choice takes a lot of work.

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How to Marry

While marriage worked differently upon the initial launch of the game, here are how things work as of the 1.07 update.

For the singles that you can woo, the heart meter greys out after eight hearts. After that maximum has been reached, they can become your girlfriend or boyfriend by buying the bouquet for 200G at the General Store. After giving them the bouquet, the heart meters will no longer be greyed out.

Once you have reached 10 hearts, you can buy the Mermaid Pendant from the Ol' Mariner in the shallow pools area of the beach (unlocked by repairing the bridge for 300 wood). The Mermaid Pendant costs 5,000G and the Ol' Mariner will not sell it to you until you have reached 10 hearts with someone.

Tips on Romance in Stardew Valley

  • Same sex marriages are possible with all 10 eligible singles (5 men, 5 women)

  • Try to get your single person of choice up to two hearts as soon as possible as certain people like Elliot, Leah, and Sebastian are serious house hermits. It makes them easier to find.

  • There are no diminishing returns on gifts, so you can spam that one item they love as much as you want.

  • It is worth noting that with singles, as with all the folks in town, your relationship will degrade if you don't talk to them for a few days. Once you have found someone that you fancy, be sure to give them the maximum two gifts every week and talk to them every now and then.

  • Don't forget to give that special someone a gift on their birthday. It yields more relationship points than normal.

  • After marriage, the work of maintaining a relationship doesn't end. If you don't talk to your spouse and surprise them with a gift every now and then, they will begin to enter what appears to be some kind of depression where they just sit in bed all day. Keep them happy and they will water your crops for you and give you food.

How to Have Children

Unlike getting married, having children requires a lot less work. Once you upgrade your house to level 3, you will unlock a nursery and your spouse will ask you if you'd like to have a child. You can answer no if you don't want kids. Same sex couples will also be able to have kids.

House upgrade level 3 requires 50,000G and 150 hardwood that can be farmed by upgrading your axe to its steel version and accessing the Secret Woods where hardwood-producing stumps spawn daily.

You do not need to maintain a relationship with children, but you can interact with them.

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Romance Options (and How to Win Them Over)

Potential marriage partners have a list of items that they Love, Like, Dislike, and Hate. Below includes both what they Love and what they Like as well as the best way to win them over. It is best to, if at all possible, give them the items that they Love for the quickest relationship gains.

stardew valley abigail

Abigail (Birthday: Fall 13th)

Often found working part-time in the General Store.

Loves

Amethyst
BlackBerry Cobbler
Chocolate Cake
Pufferfish
Pumpkin
Spicy Eel

Likes

Quartz
Apple
Pizza
Crocus

Best Way to Gain Affection - While mining and saving up amethyst is a decent way to win Abigail's heart, it is not the most efficient way. The best option is to leave her be until fall (unless you want to fight relationship decay) and grow pumpkins. Save up about 20 and it should be enough to win her over.

stardew valley haley

Haley (Birthday: Spring 14th)

Haley likes to wander the beach during the summer, but spends a lot of time near the fountain in town.

Loves

Coconut
Fruit Salad
Pink Cake
Sunflower

Likes

Daffodil
Pizza
Amethyst
Aquamarine
Topaz

Best Way to Gain Affection - Foraging daffodils in spring is a good way to start things off. If you have the kitchen expansion, you can bake her a few pink cakes using melon, egg, wheat flour (can buy), and sugar (can buy). However, the cheapest and most effective way to get close to Haley is to wait until fall and plant a bunch of sunflowers.

stardew valley leah

Leah (Birthday: Winter 23rd)

Frequently inside her hut working on her art, Leah also occasionally ventures out to the lake by her home to draw or spends night time in the saloon.

Loves

Poppyseed Muffin
Salad
Stir Fry
Vegetable Stew
Wine

Likes

Dandelion
Eggs
Fruit
Milk

Best Way to Gain Affection - Leah is easy. Just go to the Saloon, but a bunch of salads and give them to her.

stardew valley maru

Maru (Birthday: Summer 10th)

Spends a lot of time at home in the carpentry shop, but also works part-time in the clinic.

Loves

Battery Pack
Cheese Cauliflower
Diamond
Gold Bar
Miner's Treat
Pepper Poppers
Rhubarb Pie
Strawberry

Likes

Copper Bar
Iron Bar
Sweet Pea

Best Way to Gain Affection - If you utilize speed grow and buy a bunch of seeds at the Egg Festival in Spring, you can grow a good amount of strawberries. However, as you can craft Miner's Treats fairly early in the game, if you can round up enough cave carrots, sugar, and milk, that is a decent avenue as well.

stardew valley penny

Penny (Birthday: Fall 2nd)

Spending very little time in her trailer, Penny is most often found near the Community Center playground or by the Library.

Loves

Diamond
Melon
Poppy
Red Plate
Roots Platter
Sandfish
Tom Kha Soup

Likes

Leek
Dandelion
Milk
Tulip

Best Way to Gain Affection - Grow a bunch of melons (or poppies) in summer and give them to her.

stardew valley alex

Alex (Birthday: Summer 13th)

Spends his time working out in or immediately outside his house.

Loves

Complete Breakfast
Salmon Dinner

Likes

Eggs
Bok Choy
Kale
Parsnips
Pizza
Salad

Best Way to Gain Affection - Alex is kind of a pain as he only likes a select few things. Complete Breakfast takes a fried egg, milk, hashbrowns, and pancakes while a Salmon Dinner takes salmon, amaranth, and kale. The salmon dinner is the easiest if you are any good at fishing. However, it may be easier to just focus on his Likes such as Salad or Pizza which can be bought from the Saloon.

stardew valley elliot

Elliot (Birthday: Fall 5th)

A serious house hermit, Elliot spends the vast majority of his time inside his cabin on the beach, only rarely coming out to stand on the sand.

Loves

Crab Cakes
Duck Feather
Lobster
Tom Kha Soup
Pomegranate

Likes

Beer
Chowder
Fish Stew
Octopus
Squid
Wine

Best Way to Gain Affection - The easiest way is to plant a pomegranate tree and ply Elliot with beer while it matures.

stardew valley harvey

Harvey (Birthday: Winter 14th)

Spends the majority of his time working in the clinic.

Loves

Coffee
Lobster Bisque
Pickles
Truffle Oil
Wine

Likes

Daffodil
Duck Egg
Duck Feather
Parsnip
Potatoes

Best Way to Gain Affection - Got to the Saloon, buy a bunch of coffee, bring him coffee each morning until he realizes that he loves you.

stardew valley sam

Sam (Birthday: Summer 17th)

Sam works at the Joja Mart, but likes to wander around town, often sticking close to his house.

Loves

Cactus Fruit
Maple Bar
Pizza

Likes

Brown Egg
Joja Cola

Best Way to Gain Relationship - Go buy a bunch of pizza at the Saloon and give it to him.

stardew valley sebastian

Sebastian (Birthday: Winter 10th)

Sebastian spends the majority of his time in his room at the carpentry shop. However, he does wander around close to dark and on rainy days.

Loves

Fire Quartz
Frozen Tear
Pumpkin Soup
Sashimi

Likes

Coffee
Fried Calamari
Pumpkin
Quartz

Best Way to Gain Relationship - At lower leaves of the mine, you should find an abundance of frozen tears (on the ice levels) and fire quartz (near the very bottom). If nothing else, bring this poor emo kid some coffee. Emo kids love coffee.

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