A healthy and nourishing family life will help your out spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and even medically. The most important reason to improve your family life is to build the bonds between you and your spouse, and your family. By following all of the tips in this article you will drastically be able to improve the overall health of your family.
Eat at the Dinner Table with No Distractions
When it is dinner time ensure that you site at the dinner table instead of on the couch and have a firm rule of no electronics, phones, or newspapers. Dinnertime needs to be a time to not only eat food for nourishment but to also spend time with your family. Find out what the kids and spouse are up too and how their day went. Ask questions such as how is school going? You don’t want to constantly be grilling the family so you also want to relax and cut loose. Have some fun and joke around with the family. Put the phones down and leave the newspaper off of the table.
Family Home Evening
Family Home Evening is something that is promoted in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (The Mormons). You do mot have to be a member of the LDS Church to benefit from practicing family home evening. Family home evening is where every Monday you spend the evening with your family. You can read together, watch a movie, eat dinner together, or anything else. Mormon families strive to practice family home evening regardless of how busy or stressful their schedules are.
Love and Support No Matter What
It is vital that you always love and support you children regardless of their circumstances or actions. It may not be a choice you approve of and you can let them know that, but you also need to let them know that you will always love them and even support them in their decisions even if you may not agree with it. If you son or daughter comes out and tells you their gay you need to continue to love and support them as you always have. Why do some parents turn a blind eye and shun their children when they tell them they are gay. To improve your family life you must never shun your children no matter what.
A healthy family who gets exercise is much better than the family that only watches TV and rarely if ever participates in any physical activity. You do not need to force your children to do a Marine Corps workout at 0500 hours every morning in order to get them the exercise they need. You as a parent also need exercise so you can find an athletic activity that the family can participate in together whether it is Karate, Tae Kwon Do, mountain biking or any other activity.
Working out as a family is much more fun when it is a fun sport instead of simply running on a treadmill? It will also lead to a healthier and longer life for each member of your family and will help to cut stress and help to make the family unit not only stronger physically and mentally, but also happier.
Stay At Home Parent
In today’s world it is practically impossible for many parents to not work. Both the husband and wife are forced to work simply to make ends meet; however if one of the parents could be a full-time stay at home parent then it would make it much easier to keep the quality of your family and the family environment stronger.
If the mother can stay at home with the children and not force the children to have to go to a daycare or then it can partially offset the costs associated with the mother quitting her job. Although you may not be able to quit your job to stay at home with your kids immediately, there is almost always a way if you and your spouse sit down together and strive to work out a long-term plan together.
If you are always serious around your kids then they will never learn to live for the moment and enjoy life. Joke around with your kids. Jump on the ground and wrestle with your kids. Act stupid and make them laugh. Laughter helps to lower blood pressure so it is healthy thus laughing and joking with your family is a healthy way for you and your family to bond together and create memories that will be remembered for many years to come. Making memories is always important.
Religion and spirituality are ways that can help strengthen the family bonds, even if you have never previously been active going to a Church. Most religions are strong on families. If you begin going to church and get your family active with the church activities then it is bound to improve your family life. Even if you are an atheist religion can help to strengthen the family bonds.
Improving and strengthening you family life will also help you out professionally. If you have an overall healthy and happy family then you will also be more successful when you are at work because you can focus on your work knowing that your children are OK, happy, and “good to go”. There are numerous books on how to improve your family life, but the tips provided in this article will help you out tremendously as long as you sincerely attempt to implement each one.
If you cheat on your spouse then you are severely damaging the family life, even if no one knows you cheated. If you have a family then be loyal to your spouse. Divorce can occur, but it should never occur because you cheated and slept with someone else. Temptations can and will occur, but if you seize upon these opportunities then you will destroy any chance you have of creating and nourishing a healthy family environment.