First off, you need to identify what is important in your life. Many people get sidetracked from their daily hustle and grind by trying to cater to everyone else's needs and wants but don't tend to whats important to them. Sometimes our own family and friends can be the reason why we lose focus of our goals and ambition. After you have identified what is important in your life, you need to cut all the negativity and distractions out of your life and go after what you want out of life.
Next, if you are apart of social groups like Facebook, or Twitter, it may be a good idea to not log onto your account for some time or at least until you get back on track with your life. Often times, social networks like Facebook can lead to a lot of drama and negativity in your life if you let them. There is potential for friends to back stab one another on these types of sites, for arguments to break out on the internet, or negative attention to be brought on yourself. So do yourself a favor and just don't log onto your accounts until you are back on your grind and doing well for yourself. Taking some time to unplug yourself from the social networking scene can do your mind and spirit some good.
Now you want to identify your goals in life and get on your grind to attain these goals. If your goal is to finish college, or own a house, or save up a certain amount of money by a certain age, or just to move out your parents house, then you need to keep your eyes on the prize and make these goals attainable. All you need is a plan and to put your plan into action. You have to take it one day at a time and contain to remain ambitious.
The next thing is just to lay low and remain out of the scene. Don't worry about what other people are doing and all the negativity that may sorround you. The clubs, and party scenes, and the gossip and negativity are all going to still be there should you decide to go back to them. The important thing is to keep your family and true friends close to you and to bond even closer with them. You don't have to deal with trying to find out who your true friends are and who cares about you. True friends are ones who stay in constant contact with you and truly care about your uplifment and you being successful in life. Sorround yourself with positive people who also are trying to do positive things in their life. Don't worry about those people who may try to bring negativity in your life. If they are your true friends like some of them may claim to be, then let them prove to you their true friendship. They'll eventually come calling at one point or another. You just make sure you get on your grind and stay positive.
Lastly, you need to develop the money mentality. You should always be looking for ways to make more money and to get on your grind to make some money. Let's face it; money is power and the power it gives people when they have a lot of it can make their life so much easier. It is nice to be able to donate money and help your family and friends out, or to not have to work as much, or to sit back and collect passive income each month. Whether you want to invest in the stock market or real estate, become a dentist, play baseball, or just put a lot of money in your savings account, get on your grind to make your dreams a reality. Don't let anyone tell you that you can't do something and stay out of the way from negative attention and people. If you work hard and think smarter than the average person then anything is attainable in life.
So what are you waiting for? Go get on your grind. Good luck!