There is this popular adage which says that a good name is better than silver and gold. A good name is a product of good character. it is who you are that matters and not always what you are. You may be a lawyer, doctor, business tycoon, bank manager or a politician, or director general of a big firm but without a good character, you will worth little in the eyes of the common man. People with high level of integrity are greatly valued and respected. One of the attributes of a good character is good manner of approach.
The question now is how do you react when you are offended or when you offend people?. A good manner of approach will help you to maintain a cordial relationship with people around you and the society in general. A poor manner of approach will continue to put you into trouble if you do not change. A proud person can never have a good manner of approach and remember that God resists the proud but always blesses the meek and the humble. Another attribute that affect your character negatively is nagging. A nagging person will never have a peaceful home and life. Stop looking for trouble with your friends, colleagues, and family members. So that the society love for you will continue to grow stronger, because this is the only way that you can have a settle life.
From my little experience in life, human beings are insatiable and are always looking for fault no matter how you try to please them. My advice to you is to continue to be nice to them, you must never give up and one day, you will reap the reward. Do not be pessimistic but instead be optimistic and the sky will be your stepping stone. You must also learn to tolerate people with their faults knowing that you too have your own faults. Treat people the same way you would want them to treat you.